Who you are isn't the problem.
All three of us are queer-affirmative. People of every gender and sexuality are welcome here, and you won't have to explain or defend who you are before we get to what you came for.
What queer-affirmative means here
Your identity isn't something to fix
You don't have to educate us
Your name, your pronouns
Context matters
What people bring
Coming out, or deciding not to. Family who don't know, or know and don't accept. Relationships, dating and heartbreak. Questions about gender or sexuality. The exhaustion of being on guard all the time.
And plenty of people come with things that have nothing to do with being queer: exams, work, anxiety, grief. That's welcome too.
Questions worth asking any therapist
Whoever you see, it's fair to ask: What does queer-affirmative mean to you? Have you worked with queer or trans clients? How would you respond if my family was the problem? A good therapist will answer plainly. Vague answers, talk of "phases", or treating your identity as the issue are red flags.
No pressure to come out
Whether, when and to whom you come out is your decision. If home doesn't feel safe, we'll help you think about safety first. For specialised support, the Naz LGBTQIA+ helpline is there too.
All three of us
Pick whoever feels right, or start with a free consultation.
Questions people ask
Do I have to talk about being queer?
No. You bring what you want to work on. Your identity is part of your context, not your agenda.
Will you use my chosen name and pronouns?
Yes, always. Tell us in the booking form or in your first message.
Can you help me prepare to come out to my parents?
Yes. We can think through whether, when and how, and plan for the conversation and what comes after.
Is it confidential?
Yes. What you say stays between you and your therapist. We never contact your family.
Ready when you are.
Book a session online, start with a free 30-minute consultation, or text us first. We're humans, not a bot.